Sunday, May 30, 2021

A Spirit of Adoption

Trinity Sunday, May 30, 2021
St. John’s United Church of Christ, Union, Illinois

Romans 8:12-17; John 3:1-17[1]

Nicodemus comes to Jesus by night. He is perhaps afraid or embarrassed to be seen with Jesus. He is, after all, a Pharisee, a teacher of Israel, and as we learn later in John’s Gospel, a member of the Sanhedrin. These are the people most threatened by Jesus, the ones who will eventually put him on trial. Nicodemus doesn’t want to be seen with this rabble-rouser; but he is troubled, confused. He has questions for which he cannot find answers. He is no longer sure where he belongs. So, he comes by night to speak with Jesus.

Jesus seems to leave Nicodemus more confused than when he arrived. He talks about being born from above, born of the Spirit. “How can these things be?”[2] asks Nicodemus. A careful reading of the law and the prophets has not revealed to him what Jesus is trying to communicate. Jesus is speaking a different language – the language of the spiritual, the heavenly. Jesus isn’t speaking the language of rules, of procedures and “how to get into heaven.” He is, rather, speaking the language of relationship, of belonging, and of love.

We, too, come with our questions, out of the night of fear and confusion, seeking the fresh perspective, the new life offered by Christ. We are pulled in a thousand directions, dragged down by the weight of temptation at every turn, trapped in living, as Paul puts it, “according to the flesh.”[3] We have heard that the way of the flesh is the way of death, and we are trying to live according to the Spirit, to seek the way of life, but we are stuck somewhere in between. We’re not sure who we are, and who we are supposed to be. Like Nicodemus, we are drawn toward something that we don’t understand, the mystery that is God.

Jesus speaks of God in the language of relationship. To Jesus, God is “Abba”, literally “Daddy.” God is a parent who loves us as children, who seeks to save us from our self-absorbed lives. God is a brother, one of us, who seeks to show us the way of eternal life. God is a Spirit moving through us, empowering us, shaping us. It is the nature of God to be in relationship, and this is what we celebrate on Trinity Sunday, the one God with three identities in relationship with one another. And it is God who seeks us out to love us, to teach us that we belong to the family of God.

Belonging is a basic human need. As children we need to know who mommy and daddy are, and where our home is where we can feel safe. We need to belong to a community, a country, a school, a team, a club, a church. We need people to call family, friends, we, us. And we seek out ways to identify ourselves with where we belong.

Young people attempt to find their place, their identity, in many ways. Some dress in the latest fashions, join teams and don the colors of a school; others dye their hair, shave their heads, or get tattoos and piercings. Most will try out a sport, an instrument, a school club, the musical, or talk about favorite books, movies, and music in search of commonality with others.

Adults try to find their way as well. “What do you do?” is a question that usually puts a vocational identity on a person. Where you live and what car you drive sends a message of your “place” in the world. Whether we belong to the Harley club, the Lions, or a church softball team, we surround ourselves with the symbols of where we belong. I have a certificate from my college fraternity on my wall at home, I wear a UCC lapel pin on my suit jacket, and I fly the flag from the front of my house. In high school I wore a letter jacket, a camp sweatshirt, and (briefly) a calculator watch. And who I am has a lot to do with the people I associate with.

Jesus was a traveler, and did not have a permanent home. One of the first things he did was gather a group of people around him. The disciples derived identity as followers of Jesus, and some of them even had nicknames – James and John were the Sons of Thunder, Simon was called Peter “the Rock.” This group became Jesus’ friends, his family even. Mark tells us that “A crowd was sitting around him; and they said to him, ‘Your mother and your brothers and sisters are outside, asking for you.’ And he replied, ‘Who are my mother and my brothers?’ And looking at those who sat around him, he said, ‘Here are my mother and my brothers!’”[4] Jesus even invited the disciples into that intimate relationship he had with Abba.

Jesus offers an identity that goes beyond what the world offers. Clothing and cars, haircuts, sports teams, friends, and even churches change, but the identity that Christ offers is based on a relationship with God that does not end. One scholar explains: “The intimate relationship of faith is richer than others because it is established by the Spirit of God and will not fail. And even if it leads us into threatening or challenging circumstances as we share in Christ’s suffering, we have the assurance of God’s parental love, the Spirit’s power, and presence of our brother Christ.”[5]

There is a touching scene in John’s Gospel at the foot of the cross. “When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing beside her, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, here is your son.’ Then he said to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ And from that hour the disciple took her into his own home.”[6] The disciple is adopted, literally, into the family of Jesus, just as we have become, through Christ, adopted members of the family of God.

Paul says that we have been adopted as God’s children. I heard a story once that grasps the feeling of what Paul is talking about. In Native American culture the blanket makes a statement of belonging in the community. Blankets were woven with patterns unique to a particular community and family. A Pueblo woman might wear a simple dress at home. “But before she goes out to join the group dancing in the plaza of the pueblo, she wraps herself in a fringed shawl – a symbol of her belonging to the community. At the moment she wraps herself in the shawl, she is transformed. She’s wrapped in a different identity.”[7]

A similar thing happens when orphaned children are adopted by another Native American family. They are wrapped in the family blanket and walked through the village. This is a statement that these children now belong to this family. When Paul talks about our relationship with God he says: “you have received a spirit of adoption.”[8] We are wrapped in the blanket of Christ’s love and walked through the village of humanity. God says these are my children, the adopted ones, “heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ.”[9] Those who are led by the Spirit of God belong to the family of God.

Belonging to the family of God gives us an identity, but it also challenges us. God has adopted the people around us as well. We are in this together. We are joining a large family, and we must learn how to love all of our sisters and brothers. One of the mottos of the United Church of Christ is “No matter who you are or where you are on life’s journey, you’re welcome here.” The relationship with God is a gift of the Spirit, open to all, for the blanket of God is big enough for every one of us. The people with whom we share this community, this country, and this world are our family. Our brothers and sisters in Christ are our partners in this community; they seek with us the realm of God. The challenge for us is to open our blanket, to wrap it around the shoulders of those around us, and to walk together to the dancing in the plaza of the pueblo.  Amen.



[1] The scripture quotations contained herein are from the New Revised Standard Version Bible, copyright © 1989 by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in the U.S.A.  Used by permission.  All rights reserved.

[2] John 3:9.

[3] Romans 8:13.

[4] Mark 3:32-34.

[5] Clayton J. Schmit, “Homiletical Perspective on Romans 8:12-17” in Feasting on the Word: Preaching the Revised Common Lectionary, Year B, Vol. 3, David L. Bartlett and Barbara Brown Taylor, General Editors (Louisville: Westminster John Knox Press, 2009), p. 43.

[6] John 19:26-27.

[7] Robert W. Kapoun and Charles J. Lohrmann, Language of the Robe: American Indian Trade Blankets (Gibbs Smith, 2006), p. 17.

[8] Romans 8:15.

[9] Romans 8:17.

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